The Boy's Heart~

Sneak Peek- Daughters-in-law and Mothers-in-law:

It's a role that doesn't usually hold a high priority and at times can be a sensitive subject for various reasons. Throughout history and in many homes, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law relationship isn't thought of as significant except during times of indifference and miscommunication.

Over the past few months I have been actively pursuing getting the word out about my book, "I Called Her Nan." Through technology, I can track the number of blog readers and found it interesting that although people are reading what is written, there aren't many comments. Either, the reader doesn't realize that they can make a comment, or possibly women aren't comfortable telling about their daughter-in-law or mother-in-law experiences, whether it's good, ok, or bad. Son's and husbands may be thinking, "I'm not going to touch that subject!!" Most of the time they get stuck in the middle.

But the reality is, it's important to share experiences, not with the intention to belittle or brag about the relationship, yet to help others see and hear stories that may help someone else. How often do we have an opportunity to make an impact in a person's life with just our words?...all the time! Words of encouragement or understanding only take a moment to say or write.

As a young woman many years ago, I didn't put much thought into being a daughter-in-law since honestly...it wasn't important to me nor did anyone even talk about being a mother-in-law or daughter-in-law unless they had a negative experience.

Yep, never thought of how my mother-in-law of three boys actually felt...until I became a boy mom and began walking in her shoes.

"I Called Her Nan," is my journey of learning to communicate more effectively with the women my boys chose to marry. Along my walk through this short story, you'll see how it impacts our sons/husband's heart when his wife and mother have respect for each other.

Reach out to me if you have a bridal shower coming up!...I'll be glad to come to do a book signing/zoom meeting and break the ice with new (and established) daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law! The book makes a great gift for those attending the shower! It will be a lot of fun! Surprise your bride and friends with this unique way of learning to see the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law relationship with new eyes right from the beginning. It all starts with ...the boy's heart!

Have a great day, and don't forget to leave a few of your thoughts in the comment section below!

Thanks,

Cathy :)